To be normal, a person must be like others. When Jews lived isolated in their own communities, they were normal: each Jew was culturally like the rest. In the nineteenth century, superficial liberalism opened the outside world to Jews. The Gentiles still despised the Jews but called us their equals. Jews saw the world and its opportunities, and realized that they were not normal,not like others. The nineteenth-century German discussion of Jews is instructive: liberals countered anti-semites by asserting that Jews could eventually become like other Germans. They did not imagine that Jews were decent people in their own right. German Jews accepted that attitude and rushed to assimilate.
It’s hard, very hard to be different. The Jews wanted to be normal. Israel offers us a chance to normalize without Gentile-izing, to be like our neighbors, yet unlike the world that eats dogs and pigs, practices incest and homosexuality, and dislikes us at best.
It’s hard, very hard to believe you are right when the world is against you. And so the Jews suppose Gentiles are right, their customs better, that anti-semites have a point. And the Jews hate their Jewishness and see it as a stain and erase it. Deep in their minds they know their betrayal is bad, that they betray generations of Jews who went up on stakes and died in pogroms to pass on the spark of Judaism. The Jews hate the bug that makes them uneasy. They hate their Jewishness. They hate other Jews because they implicitly remind them that they are not Americans, leftists, or whatever other group they want to belong to, but Jews. Religious and nationalist Jews who wear their Jewishness proudly are a constant reminder to assimilationist Jews of their moral bankruptcy, of their betrayal. And gentilized Jews hate religion and take pleasure in suppressing it. They brainwash Israeli schoolchildren with stories of Judaism’s borrowing from neighboring religions; children don’t understand the qualitative differences of superficially similar rites. They ridicule religious people, their habits and their wardrobe, without telling the children that those funny-looking religious guys stood tall in the face of persecutions, tortures, and murder for centuries. They discriminate against Jewish religious schools in the diaspora and ostracize their sponsors.
Gentiles have religion, culture, empires. Gentilized Jews reject Judaism, Jewishness, and Eretz Israel, though they concede to ghetto-sized Israel. Gentilized, rootless Jews realize their inferiority to Gentiles with roots. Jews used to be proud of themselves, and inferiority ruins their mental health. Rootless Jews hate their parents and their compatriots who deceived them about Jewish pride; as they see it now, Jews have nothing to be proud of. Rootless Jewish leaders hatefully oppress common Jews, choose policies detrimental to them, and divert their money to irrelevant and even anti-Jewish causes. Many Jewish families forego having more children because they cannot pay the skyrocketing cost of education, but fat American Jewish organizations refuse to finance Jewish schools to make education free.
The rush of the Jews to strip themselves of Jewishness confirms Gentiles in their contempt for the Jews. “Even the Jews realize that their ways are wrong,” think the hereditary anti-semites, “and we’re right to dislike them. Let them become like us, if they could.” Educated, wealthy modern Gentiles are no less anti-semites than their poor and ignorant ancestors. The difference is, they don’t want violence. The Germans detested the unorganized violence of pogroms; the Nazis listened and switched to planned extermination in death camps.


I've read your blog with great interest. As a gentile with a signficant number of "secular" jewish friends I am always amazed at their rejection of Jewish tradition while calling themselves jews. However, the rejection of identity is profound in the western gentile world as well. Gentiles in the west have lost faith in that which propelled them to their position in the world today. The United States is not as far along the path to self loathing as europe but it is on its way. Digressing, I find it perplexing that most religous and ethnic groups in the world are allowed and encouraged to maintain their identity, save Jews. Jews are castigated for the very same. I lost my catholicism a very long time ago but even as a secularist I am very bothered by the rejection of faith by so many American Jews. For milllenium Jews strived for a homeland and now that there is one the world insists that the Jews who sacrificed so long dilute, and ultimately destroy, what it also insists the arabs of palestine must have, a homeland. Shalom from a gentile
Thank you. I always found it curious that we receive more encouraging responses from Gentile friends than from Israel.
I am not a Jew. Yet, I find Jews at least normal, and even admirable. In my few business contacts with Jews, I have been blessed to find them honest, intelligent, creative, and always punching far above their weight in their contribution to the project.Of course, I am an American. What more can you expect from a co-worker than high productivity, integrity, and perhaps a little good humor on occasion?If only the world had more people like those with whom I have had the honor of working!
It's very hard if not impossible to maintain your religious identity if it requires so many restrictions as it does of the orthodox Jews. That's why they live, in America at least, in ghetto-like neighborhoods. Of course the garbs from middle ages look strange now (I heard the same sentiment from many Jews) and sometime the attitude of orthodox Jews toward the other Jews is arrogant, to say the least. Looks like they usurped Judaizm and everybody else, who is not like them is not Jewish….
One thing that I think definitely must happen is that jews must stop identifying themselves as white…
To Anonymous: Obadiah argues for reinterpreting the rabbinical teaching. Shulhan Aruh was written with a certain situation in mind, and many of its rules are outdated. The odd Orthodox clothes were nice and modern when they were introduced. Reinterpretation of the Shulhan Aruh and possibly of some Talmudic rules need not extend to the Torah.
Regarding Anonymous' statements about dress, etc: I am an Orthodox Jew. I wear tsis-tsis, yarmulke, and am bearded. I do not live in an enclave nor a ghetto. By the same token, I see no reason not to live among your own, and to venture out from there. Moreover, Judaism focuses on the torah and the Sabbath, which requires that no work be done and that includes driving a car. I live within walking distance of a Chabad.I receive more respect as an ouvert Jew that I did as one who "could pass."
"I receive more respect as an ouvert Jew that I did as one who "could pass."Exactly.
Actually wearing a kippah 24 hours a day is not mandated by the Torah. Wearing tzizit is required by the Torah. As I become more religious, I am going to wear tzizit.
Just don't forget the blue thread which the rabbis abrogated )