Propaganda, both in Israel and Nazi ghettos, brainwashed Jews into the alternative reality where the reality was too painful to accept.
Aircraft is useless against terrorists, but the IDF sends fighter jets against Palestinian villages to show the Israelis that even the strongest measures fail. Jews, accordingly, lose hope. Israeli government purposely humiliates Jews promising to divide Jerusalem and reduce Israel to ludicrous borders. The humiliation is decidedly senseless, as when the Jews are banned from praying at the Temple Mount; in concentration camps, Jews were similarly made to run with heavy sacks there and back. East Jerusalem is given to Arabs because Arabs settle it, anyway; by that token, give away the Galilee, also populated by Arabs. Instead of self-evident measure of driving Arabs from Jerusalem, Israeli government takes Jerusalem from Jews.
The government repeatedly provokes Palestinians with peace promises to maintain the ongoing violence. Shelling of Sderot makes Jews accept the proximity of death; in ghettos, Jews likewise stepped over corpses and moved on. Rocket attacks on the north Israel engaged Israelis in betrayal: they partied in Tel Aviv while their kin was murdered in Haifa. Peace process offers them a hope on par with Germans' selling train tickets to Jewish crowds shipped actually to death camps. And the EU sponsors the Judenrat establishment which stirs Jewish state toward its end.